lelaki unggul.wujudkah anda?

Hehe. Rasa lucu tengok tajuk ni. Tapi terdetik nak tulis sebab sepanjang tolong mak uli doh karipap tadi, deme asyik sembang pasal lelaki dan suami2 kepada orang.

I know I mentioned that I don't want to be with anyone now. This post is just sharing on what is my ideal lelaki unggul.. Hehe. Again nak ketawa. Bila sebut ayat unggul
.teringat tagline iklan.ni.. Hihi

Anyhoo, me, my mum and my sis were talking about how some men being irresponsible father and husband, banyak bergantung kepada isteri je. And also jenis liat nak solat.. ( obviously melihat situasi sebegini yang ada punca sebab saya tak nak kahwin lagi.. Tak jumpa lagi yg betul2 worth it)  sebab kita fikir long term.  cause when we get married, it is sharing a life with another human being, dari sharing the bed, houses, food, and most importantly decision making pun sharing.. Tak lupa kita dah bagi some part of our heart yang fragile ni to that person. I want it to be handle with care and vice versa.

Plus my sis dah kalut, haa mak nanti bila adik kahwin, kita buat kat sinilah. Mak pula cakap, yelah adik tu tah bila, kawan.pun xde... Hahaha ( sounds pathetic)

Cakap banyak pula:
Inilah,ciri2 calom kalau saya diperudahkan dapat, Alhamdullillah sangat.. Kikiki. Naadiah2..

1. Put God first, jaga solat, sad to say sekarang ramai yang kureng disini..
2. Tak merokok
3. Tak berkira
4. Hormat and sopan orang tua2
5. Matang, kalau boleh muda tapi fikirannya matang, sebab saya sendiri boleh tahan matangnya, i wanna man not a boy.
6. Sayang binatang dan pengasih dan empathetic.
7. Senang bawa bincang, positif dan optimistik.
8. Rajin
9. Lucu
10. Honest and understanding. Serik dah pernah kena tipu teruk sekali. Cuma harap dapat yang jujur. Apa lagi? Hmm
11. Ya! Aktif dan rajin melancong boleh jadi kawan melancong, kalau tak nak saya pergi sorang pun xpe..
12. Oh yes, independent, why? Contohlah kalau kita tgh pantang, pandai2 lah kemas rumah and masak sendiri.. Hahaha.
13. Last but not least, like minded. Senang semua perkara.


Nak stresskan disini, saya mungkin.sound demanding. But I have a set of characteristics that I found would be useful as a housewife. So I am only looking for a man that's worthy of it. Other than that I will also be gradually improving myself in a lot of housewife skills I should be having, al maklumlah nak jadi superwoman for my family..

Too much not so good example around me, I just want mine to be worth the marriage.

Marriage is no joke.

Untuk family, saya harap deme dapat bersabarlah, budak2 muda sekarang ni sikitttttt sangat nak jumpa yang betul2 boleh diharap.. So My time will come eventually, semua dah ditentukan tuhan.. Saya cuma trust the process, every guy I met in my life have got something to teach me. Which im grateful for, be it good or bad..


Akhir kata: sabarlah semua orang. Rezeki orang masing2 lain.. InshaAllah ada lah. Saya buat kenduri jemput semua ye

 Hehe.

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