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something that is me

I'm the kind who is good in intrapersonal skill. I'm aware of what's happening to me and always ponder upon them whatever they maybe.. Well in this not so cool day.. I think quite a lot, while accomplishing multiple task at work.. These are the things that are just me: 1. I don't like to be reminded of things I already know. To me, that can be extremely annoying to the point of I would distance myself from whoever that was doing it.. ( It's like I know, why the need of repetition ) no need to stress on a certain.things too much..that gets me overwhelmed somehow. 2. I must have my alone time. Must to.the max. Or else I can blow up or burnt out.. So when I'm having my alone time, I don't like to be disturbed. 3. I believe in.having a work life balance. I believe in giving my 100% in both. Therefore you may find me work like crazy n give the best at home as well. I will always go back and help out my mum, cooking with her, chitchatting with my sis..I even

Alone Time

It is saturday. And I have decided since the night before I want to go to the movies ( I even planned for my.morning workout routine, n timing in my head and as usual.everything went as planned). I  want to have my alone time again. After such a crazy  2weeks at work..this week everything ended very well..I was happy for so many reasons. I realized "denial is the enemy of the truth" quote from.the movie I watched called Redha..And so I did what I thought was right and I never felt happier.. whatever this thing is which I don't intend to share it with the world.. It makes me happy.. And I would love to keep it that way. I cannot have too much of it nor too little of it.. The right amount will do just to keeping me content. A friend of mine that I happened to become kinda close  with.. i can say, shared something about  following the flow and process and do not push or rush something. Fear the passion and excitement of it might burnt out makes me think a lot about the ve

Before 30

Dear oh dear. This is a really hot topic among malays in malaysia. Yup. Over here, some people still believe that a lady should get married before 30. So they say, if you get married early, you will have more kids and jangan jadi anak dara tua. As a matter of fact a lot of my friends are already happily married. have kid after kid. Hmm, I'm just not really drawn into that so soon. There are many reasons for why I said that: 1. I'm not financially really stable yet (up to my standard at least). I think I should have enough to cover for whatever needed in such commitment. 2. I have not found the right person yet. A lot has happened to the women surrounding myself and also myself, somehow I have build/ create a checklist when it comes to choosing man,. The " what to avoid" list. I'm very cautious in a way.  (There was one past relationship that turned so bad, that I feel like I should investigate a man like a convict, before proceeding further- woww). I re