neuroticallyme

Hehe. Rasa lucu tengok tajuk ni. Tapi terdetik nak tulis sebab sepanjang tolong mak uli doh karipap tadi, deme asyik sembang pasal lelaki dan suami2 kepada orang. I know I mentioned that I don't want to be with anyone now. This post is just sharing on what is my ideal lelaki unggul.. Hehe. Again nak ketawa. Bila sebut ayat unggul .teringat tagline iklan.ni.. Hihi Anyhoo, me, my mum and my sis were talking about how some men being irresponsible father and husband, banyak bergantung kepada isteri je. And also jenis liat nak solat.. ( obviously melihat situasi sebegini yang ada punca sebab saya tak nak kahwin lagi.. Tak jumpa lagi yg betul2 worth it)  sebab kita fikir long term.  cause when we get married, it is sharing a life with another human being, dari sharing the bed, houses, food, and most importantly decision making pun sharing.. Tak lupa kita dah bagi some part of our heart yang fragile ni to that person. I want it to be handle with care and vice versa. Plus my si...

Even the word parent brought about heavily important vibe   Being a parent is not just about feeding the child, but also shaping the being of a child, their personal growth. What triggers me on writing about this even though I am not yet married is the trainings I have assisted recently. I heard a lot of sharing on how kids don't like their parents for forcing them into doing things they dislike and some other rather unpleasant stuff which made me realized it is extremely important to start shaping the kid at their early age. For an example: to live life knowing the existence of choices and being responsible of it, to speak up their opinion the appropriate way, to be committed, compassionate, empathetic of other people, being rational, and always giving the flexibility to again- their choices. At the end of the day, it's their life not ours. Well honestly to me, letting the kids be happy doing stuff they love is better than having the kids feeling stressed, depressed and a...

Saya jenis yang selalu berangan melakukan sesuatu yang tidak biasa orang lakukan. "seorang diri". Tak kira apa kata orang walaupun ada yang kena perli. Kita redha je.. Hehe. Yang penting saya buat untuk kepuasan cabaran yang I set myself. And I count on me. Not people. So biarlah apa orang nak cakap. I'll keep doing it. Mula2 berangan, pastu slowly plan, pastu menjadi.. Itulah kisahnya